Leave Our Homos Alone
What a great line to start an entry off with! I love it. It is a quote from a high school girl who was fed up with protesters who were visiting her town because of a gay citizen in her town.
I read about Michael Shakelford in September in an article in the Washington Post entitled “In the Bible Belt, Acceptance Is Hard-Won”. I was touched by the courage of this young man and how mean people at his school and the community had been to Michael and his mother.
But now, something miraculous has happened. The Westboro Baptist Church from Topeka, Kansas was arriving in Michael’s town of Sand Springs, Oklahoma to protest the town’s acceptance of homosexuality and the churches there that are not being outspoken enough to condemn homosexuality. It seems the town has started to show some support for Michael in coming out against the protesters. It’s a story with a silver lining, I suppose you could say.
There are some people in this world who are made to be destroyed. - Fred Phelps
The fliers arrived three weeks ago. Some came over the fax machines of local churches, and others appeared mysteriously around town. Printed in bold was the heading “Westboro Baptist Church.” No seeming cause for alarm. Sand Springs, population 18,500, is a Christian stronghold in the gently rolling hills of eastern Oklahoma.
But the message that followed was a rant against a 17-year-old Sand Springs resident named Michael Shackelford and his mother, Janice, the subjects of a recent Washington Post series examining Michael’s struggles as a young gay man in the Bible Belt. The fliers posted a photo of Michael, called him a “doomed teenage fag” and announced that followers of Westboro Baptist in Topeka were on their way from Kansas to stage antigay protests in Sand Springs. [...]
When Phelps announced that his group was coming to picket at several churches and the high school, fresh battle lines were drawn. To many here, homosexuality was a sin, but Michael Shackelford was their sinner. Just as the November election was reducing moral issues to red or blue, Sand Springs confronted subtler shades of truth. Janice Shackelford was terrified by the persecution of her son, then surprised by what happened next.
“This Westboro outfit thought they could come to this town and break it apart,” Janice said. “But it has brought the town together. It has opened some doors to talk.” [...]
The response surprised Michael, who thought he would be cast out. People were being nice to him. Only a few weeks earlier he’d been called a “queer” at Arby’s. Now there was a new menace in Sand Springs, and it was Fred Phelps. [...]
Inside the church, the congregation was standing and the six-piece guitar band was rocking. The music and energy built until Pastor Eubanks bounded onstage.
“There is darkness and there is light and we are in the middle of the light,” Eubanks said, to more thunderous applause. “Say it: God loves us all. All of us!”
After the service, several people came up to hug Janice. One woman held her in an embrace that lasted two minutes, whispering to Janice the whole time.
A burly man with a crew cut gave Michael a thumbs-up. “Man, you be who you are,” Shannon Watie said, holding his Bible. “We got your back.” (source)

The fliers arrived three weeks ago. Some came over the fax machines of local churches, and others appeared mysteriously around town. Printed in bold was the heading “Westboro Baptist Church.” No seeming cause for alarm. Sand Springs, population 18,500, is a Christian stronghold in the gently rolling hills of eastern Oklahoma.




Darren, I appreciate your comments, but the people of Kansas apparently don't feel the way you do. This from the newswire yesterday:
"TOPEKA — The Kansas Senate was scheduled to start debate today on a proposed constitutional prohibition of same-sex marriage. The Senate was set to convene at 2:30 p.m. State law already bans same-sex marriage, but conservatives are pushing for a constitutional ban, saying it is needed to protect marriage. Passage of proposed constitutional amendements require two-thirds approval in the House and Senate before they can be placed before voters for a statewide election.
If the measure gets the required votes in the Legislature, there also is debate on whether to place it on the April 5 ballot or wait until the November 2006 general election."
I should also add that the legislation that the people of Kansas is trying to put through would not only prohibit marriage for gay people, but also civil unions or any type of recognized relationship for gay people that would simulate marriage.
If the people of Kansas do not want this, they should let their elected legislators know this LOUD AND CLEAR. They aren't doing that.
As far as I'm concerned, the people of Kansas are no better than Fred Phelps. Fred Phelps is just a little more honest and open about how he feels about it.
Let me apologize on behalf of the people of Kansas for what Fred Phelps said & did. He does not reflect the true imagine of Kansans. God bless all you!!
Thanks Buff. We plan to have a quiet Thanksgiving down on the coast - just the two of us this year. Not a bad thing. :)
Great series of post, bill and kent.
Really liked the photos in your recent post.
Hoping you guys have a super Thanksgiving.
Take care.
We live about 45 minutes west of Sand Springs. I'm a native southern Californian, so living in the buckle of the Bible Belt has afforded me more culture shock than have any of my travels to foreign countries. But I've been here 4 1/2 years now and I've become increasingly oblivious to the 100-foot crosses, "Jesus Hates ___" (fill in the blank) billboards, and the overall conservatism here.
When we read in the paper of Phelps' visit to Sand Springs my life partner, Lynette, and I gritted our teeth and prepared for a mini-holocost, since it was at the same time as the elections and all the evangelical euphoria that was going on. But surprise! The people who showed up -- Christian people -- were there to protest Phelps. The news reported that it was actually a non-event, and the talking heads left, disappointed.
We couldn't believe that Phelps was rejected in this place and time, and by people we thought would actually embrace him and carry him upon their shoulders -- evangelical conservatives who voted for Bush and their "moral values".
If I've learned anything at all while living here in Oklahoma, it's never to stereotype an Oklahoman. They settled this state as rebels and although they are conservative they're also freedom-loving and very eccentric. And that's a good thing.